For the past two weeks, I’ve been sharing my thoughts on who I am, why we get tired, and lessons from Chef Dammy. I honestly struggled to find a topic for this week until the Peller saga took over the timeline. Alas! Nigeria never disappoints with drama.
If you were online yesterday (December 14, 2025), you felt the panic. One minute it was memes, the next minute, Peller our favorite TikTok loudmouth was livestreaming a near-tragic goodbye.
The “Breakfast” That Almost Took a Life
Reports say Peller crashed his car after a mental breakdown online, allegedly triggered by a breakup with Jarvis. She apparently served him the kind of “breakfast” involving “relationship contracts” that no amount of AI could fix. Suddenly, the boy who shouts “You are not a chosen!” was shaking and threatening to end it all. It wasn’t funny anymore.
The Illusion of Fame vs. My 2023 Reality
I won’t lie, I daydream about fame the cars, the screams. But watching Peller yesterday hit me hard: The riches of the mind cannot be filled with worldly affairs. Fame amplifies everything, even the pain.
I get it because 2023 was my own version of the trenches. I don’t talk about it often, but I contemplated taking the coward’s way out when the noise in my head got louder than Lagos traffic. I was favored to have people anchor me when my ship was capsizing.
Watching a young guy like Peller almost lose his life reminded me: In the long run, nothing is worth taking your life over. Not a girl, not a contract, not social media validation.
Filter the Noise, Build Your Site
Life is like a browser with too many tabs; sometimes you just need to refresh. You need to build your mind like a security system to filter the “Gbas Gbos” of life.
This applies to your business too. Just like Peller needs a support system, your business needs a strong digital foundation. You can’t build on “vibes and inshallah.”
I build websites that are like a healthy mind stable, functional, and bug-free. Whether you’re blogging life lessons or selling products, I help you structure your digital presence so you can focus on protecting your peace.
Final Verdict
Thank God Peller is alive and Jarvis is safe. The car can be replaced, but you only have one life. Don’t let the “wahala” of today delete your tomorrow.
Let’s build something lasting.
Disclaimer: Based on news from Dec 14, 2025. I just write code and share thoughts, I am not a therapist.
